1 Samuel 1:27 For this child I prayed; and the LORD hath given me my petition which I asked of him

Levi

Levi

Our Adoption Story

Levi was born on April 21, 2007 in Chinautla, Guatemala, a small town known for pottery. He weighed 6.7 pounds and was 19.7 inches long. He was in private foster care in Guatemala City where he lived for 10 1/2 months with his foster mom, her son and daughter and Isaac, his foster brother. Throughout our difficult adoption journey, Isaac's mom, Nancy and I became very good friends. God placed our boys together and had the perfect plan in place long before we ever realized it. When I was undecided on an adoption agency, I joined an online forum where Nancy provided me with information about her agency and recommended them to us. We decided to sign with the same agency and I emailed Nancy back to let her know. Over a few months we emailed back and forth to learn we were both from TN and lived only 30 minutes apart... we thought wow, it's a small world. Little did we know a few months later we'd both get referrals, earlier than we expected, of 2 beautiful Guatemalan angels. When they turned 2 months old our agency called and decided it was time to tell us that they were in the same foster home together and had been since they were 1 day old. We were amazed they were together. Even more so, God amazed us once again when we learned shortly after that they were born on the same day and were from the same town... no longer a coincidence that was for sure. We were being told by the foster mom how attached they were and acted like brothers. But, Nancy and I got the chance in January '08 to go to visit them and see it for ourselves. It was an amazing time of bonding with our boys that we will never forget. After that trip it seemed when one of us would reach a roadblock in the crazy process of international adoption the other would be delayed with something else. We stayed right together until the very day we picked them both up. We had our US Embassy appts the same day and we flew home through Atlanta on the same flight on March 11, 2008 when they both entered the US as citizens! It was an awesome time for us in the Atlanta Airport when we rec'd the congrats they were official! We've made friends for life with Nancy, Eric, and with Isaac's extended families. We look forward to many years of watching them both grow up so close together. Over the past year, as we went through battle after battle to bring our boys home, Nancy and I both would never think of one without the other in our endless prayers to keep them safe, happy and healthy until they could be home with their forever families. We're finally parents and it's what we've both waited for, for so many years.. our families are finally complete!!!

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

WE ARE OUT OF PGN!!! PRAISE THE LORD!!!

We are finally out of PGN!!! I called on Monday to check on the status of our case and spoke with Laura, the English speaking girl we get for status checks and she said we had been approved that I needed to call my agency. I called them and they said they would check with the attorney and get back with me to confirm if we were indeed out or not. I didn't hear back from them so, I assumed our file wasn't picked up yet. The social worker from our agency called me yesterday at work to confirm the attorney did pick up my file on Monday and she had it in hand with my approval. We were out as of Friday, January 18th. The social worker from the agency said the attorney had called the birth mom to come in and do her final sign off. after she does it's official... Levi is our son legally. Pleas pray that she gets in there and gets signed off so the attorney can get us registered with the civil registry where we get the birth certificate from and then we wait for that. Here is where the mayor is holding the new birth certificates because apparently he doesn't like Americans or adoptions or something because he's causing unnecessary delays with releasing them. Nancy has been researching this and talked to several couples who have waited and waited and are having to actually fly to Guatemala and meet with him just to get it released. He's held some up to like 8-12 weeks. We won't wait that long before we go get ours but, we pray that it doesn't have to come to that. We'll make it our prayer that he will just release them and let us come get ours boys soon. Nancy and Eric will have been waiting for Isaac's new bc 3 weeks this coming Friday and she will be talking to our agency to see what their game plan is from there about getting it for them. She is not willing to wait much longer though because she can try and get it herself a lot sooner. It's crazy to waste even more time waiting and waiting if you truly can walk in, wait for an appt with the mayor and walk out with it. Rumor has it he likes bribes and he's out to get some money from this but, he can expect no money from us for it we have to stay legal here and need no trouble with the case at this point. We've come too far to mess things up now. I don't know what they could do if anything since he's legally already your son at that point but, basically I guess I'll see what comes about with Nancy's and go from there since she is 3 weeks ahead of us on this issue.
Once they get the birth certificate they can submit you for orange, which is the authorization for the second required DNA test. They will just take him in and swab his mouth I think. It just has to match the first one he had done with his birth mom and we aren't worried about him being the same baby we took as our referral, etc.. for those of us who get monthly pictures and updates and have been to visit this is a useless but required step by the US to ensure they are issuing a visa for the same baby that the case started with. Luckily, this has been a pretty steady part of the process. It goes to Labcorp from Burlington, NC so we'll be able to track that somewhat too and know when the results make it back to the US Embassy. Once they get the results we'll wait for an appointment... which is your pink slip to travel. The appointment or "pink" is for you to go in and pay for his visa so he can leave the country. Adoptive parents getting travel dates right now are running like the first few weeks of February. I know we're ready to have this behind us and get him home and start our family. We've waited as long as it takes to have a baby and it shouldn't take longer than that to get this done.
All in all we praise the Lord for this wonderful news and know that I will be posting when and if I hear when the birth mom comes and signs off. The attorney feels like this isn't a big step (the birth mom's signing) so, generally they don't call our agency when this takes place unless they just happen to think to mention it's been done according to the agency social worker. I on the other hand think it's major since that is what makes everything final and him legally our son. Of course, part of our hearts have been in Guatemala since we first saw his pictures and we accepted the referral and especially after meeting him for the first time back in September. In our eyes he's been our son since May but, legally speaking. Praying for a speedy sign off and for the birth mom to have peace and closure with the decision she has made to allow us to become Levi's parents. We'll always take that responsibility very serious and be proud to be his mommy and daddy. We could never thank her enough for the ultimate sacrifice she made to allow him to have a better life full of opportunities. Once she is done with her part with the sign off, I pray that the attorney would allow me to write her a letter and have it translated. I don't know if it'll ever even make it to her or not but, I feel like I owe it to her to at least try to let her know how blessed we are that Levi will make our family complete. Continue to pray that these last few steps are behind us quickly so we can get our boy home!! Thanks for all your prayers and support so far. We know without God none of this would have been possible! Will keep you posted with updates as I know more. Love and Blessings- Tracy (aka Levi's mommy)

9 comments:

Gail said...

Congratulations on the OUT!! Hope you get that bc soon.
Gail

Anonymous said...

Tracy-i just read your great news on the yahoo boards so i had to come visit your blog! I'm so thrilled that both you and Nancy are both out of PGN!!! It won't be long and both of you will have your children home.

Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy homecoming!!!!

Nancy and Isaac McGee said...

Tracy,
congratulations to you and Steve and to little Levi. I know you have waited a long time to hear the words YOU ARE OUT. It is a wonderful feeling and I hope the b-mom comes in soon to give her final signature. I am praying for us both to get a miracle of not having to wait for months on the birth cert. We have already waited so long but I do see that light at the end of the tunnel. Hoping we both have our boys home very soon. Love ya'll!!!

Anonymous said...

Yay, Yay, Yay and Yay!!!! You guys already know how happy I am for ya! Hang in there its almost over!

Jennifer said...

I am SO EXCITED for you!! I pray that the rest of the process goes by quickly. What a lucky boy to have a mommy and daddy who love him so much:) Love you guys!

Our Girls said...

CONGRATS on getting out of PGN!!!!!
I pray you get the BC and DNA quickly, so you can have him home SOON! I am so happy for both you and Nancy... Maybe you will have your Pick up trip together?!!!
Will keep watching your site for updates!!!
CONGRATS again to YOU!!!!

Unknown said...

This will all be over soon, and your little boy will be in your arms. I can't wait to meet him in August!!! I am so happy for you guys.

Cammie said...

Congratulations!!

Anonymous said...

Keep up the good work.